Two Guy Friends Wanted to Take me on a Date – Who Won The Date?

I overheard a man at the pool speaking on the phone to this woman.

He was clearly in the early dating phase going into the trying to get her to commit stage.

He did some big wins:
They were on the phone and he said are you good to Facetime right now?

SMART MAN – giving her the option to offer Face to Face instead of just assuming as she may have just woken up, gotten out of the shower, been in the car.

She says, “yes”

He goes, “Wow you look so good even when you’re out and about doing errands.”

 She says, “awe thanks”

All of this was totally organic, genuine you could tell he wasn’t reading this line out of a book.

He really meant it, and she was truly present in her body to receive it.

In her response of “awe thanks,” you could hear the DROP in, of her Soul within her body when he said you look so good.

SHE PAUSED  - she BREATHED, received it, TOOK HIS PENETRATIVE COMMENT inward, and felt it deep.

The beauty of true receptivity.

Well then, they move into talking about plans from what I could tell this woman lives in New York and he lives here in LA.

 She said, “yeah.”

She wasn’t overly committed, yet wasn’t like a definite no.

She clearly is a bit confused on what his intentions are/what she actually wants from the interaction with his guy.
He rides over this unclear commitment to meet up / travel together.

He proceeds to list a bunch of places in Napa Valley, LA, some places in Florida.

It goes from a few days to him saying he can take the whole week off.

 He’s going in for the first part of the commitment to meet up, to then the overcommitment of a whole week.

 To put it into a perspective for the Awakened woman it’s like we just got on our first phone call we committed to firm plans for dinner.

Right after this verbal confirmation, you’re now asking me for a commitment to have dinner every week, at the same time.

When dinner number one hasn’t even happened.

I recommend reading my blog post The Power of a Man’s Penetration to understand how to cultivate this energy more fluidly 

I can hear her still avoiding giving confirmation and she’s trying to internally understand what’s going on in her body because her feelings are all over the place.

This is happening because he’s wanting to be “cool” to show that his schedule is “flexible,” he’ll take time “off work” for her.

This is pushing her further away from commitment.

Because it’s like you gave her a kiss and now you are sexually on top of her.

So, essentially this would happen in person spending a weekend together physically and emotionally

 On top of that, you said you’d take off work for her – you don’t even know her – this shows that your integrity to your work – to your life mission – isn’t of the highest priority and that you easily would be distracted by me or other life temptations.

The Awakened Women may not have had all these conscious thoughts, yet her energetic receivers can feel this.

What I’d recommend as a man is you
You put the feelers out there I’d love to meet up – let me know some good dates – and I can plan it.

Then PAUSE let her meet your halfway.

They got off the phone and I can feel it from across the pool that women just friend-zoned you. She’d love to travel with you, yet being physical, dating you, or becoming intimate isn’t going to happen because you were so obsessively focused on offering everything to make sure you showed interest, instead of just letting it be.

Well after this the man saw me typing on my computer, I’m thinking SH%T – he heard my thoughts as no thoughts are private in this New World.

The pool guy comes over with his friend to start talking to me.

 Well, then I can feel between both of them they are trying to decide who will win my attention.

The guy who was on the phone did it again with me – went right in for the close to lock in a jazz date with me – where the other guy and I were just laughing.

The pool guy’s friend openly stated in front of me I don’t care about women, I am focused on myself.

(My mind is racing; I was like did he just read my blog How to Get the Awakened Women to Crave You)

The original pool guy left because he had another date waiting, yet told his friend don’t hit on me, as I’m a cool girl.

Well, this all gets revealed to me, and guess what, the guy who stated he didn’t care about women, we spent the rest of the night together, my girlfriends came over, and planned date number two.

The guy who didn’t care won my heart and attention.

And he provided THE MOST MAGICAL night for me and my friends.

This is the power of being an Awakened Women.

There becomes an endless supply of actual good men, where there are no toxic attachments.

And men this is for you to learn to be good with or without the Awakened Women, because when the Awakened Woman feels this, we naturally fall into you, without you ever needing to ask.

We feel safe because your energy was full without us.

This is the art, this is the meaning of true connection, to build a foundation for a sustainable relationship.

Be the man who is true to You, good with or without women, because then you magnetize the truest essence of the Divine Feminine.

This is what you deeply crave and will forever satisfy you.

Get inside my How to Make the Awakened Woman Crave You Workshop to begin this lifestyle.

Turn your life into the greatest love affair
Colleen Gallagher