Four Dates in Ten Days - Which Man Creates the Best Connection — Read to Figure out Which One and Why.

So, I’ve gone on four dates in the past ten days.
Four totally different men from four different countries, all from different backgrounds.

Now out of the four men, two of them would get second dates.

Out of the four men, only one grabbed my heart, where I can see myself dating over a period of time, but still knowing it’s probably not the person I’d marry. It’s no surprise one of the number one questions I get through social media besides how to work with me is, “Can I take you out to dinner?”
And none of these men came through social media.

However, let’s break it down and see if you can guess the variations in men, who I’d choose, and why.

Date number 1 – This is a man I’ve been dating on and off for three years. He was at my place while we were both working. Then when we both finished our last calls. We were just cuddling and hanging out, and he said, “Let’s go to dinner.” I responded, “I am so happy and excited because I love when we go out since a lot of our time after 3.5 years has turned into hanging out. I asked him, “where should we go?” And he put the ball back in my court to decide. After going back and forth for 25 minutes because we’ve eaten so many places together, I was tempted to just order in. Why bother? This is now a hassle to decide. Finally, I think of a new place we haven’t been to. I make the reservations. I decided to get ready, and I said, “what should I wear, so you like 😋.” He said, “whatever you want.”

As I’m getting ready, we go out the door. And he forgot his wallet, and I left my purse because he said he’d be getting dinner. So, we had to turn around and get his wallet. He then tells me, “You need to always have your things with you 🙄.”

Dinner was great, oysters.
An amazing mussel dish with a spicy tomato sauce.
We left before I couldn’t finish my glass of wine because my date was cold, and the place took the heater away.
He dropped me off, and he had to leave because the sitter for his kid was up.

Date number 2 – This is a man I’ve been going on dates with and talking to for over eight months but has been a lot more consistent and present the past four months.  

We were in the same location for less than 36 hours, so trying to make plans was challenging.
However, in the morning before his flight, we texted and tried to make a plan.
I suggested a place to eat that I know he likes and that is close to me.

 I’m sunbathing, and he says, “meet me [at the place I suggested]. I’ll be there in 10 minutes.”
Somewhat panicked, with how I looked, I had minimal makeup, no time to get ready; I was lying in the sun. I was like, UHHHH, SHIT3984U80Q3U.
Complete nervous system freaks out.
My mind is racing; maybe I just don’t go.
I text him this, “it just won’t work.”
No, that’s silly; you want to see him.
I text him 2 minutes later, “okay, be there in 15 minutes.”
Okay, I am running around getting dressed, spraying perfume, and some makeup.
Out the door, I go.

He texts me, “what do you want to eat? We need to order so we have enough time.”
I message him the order.
Part of me panicking, part of me like is this real life.

We were laughing, talking, and lost in a little bubble the whole lunch.
However, he did say that based on my line of work, he wonders “if I’m on medication or mentally seeing someone.” Not my favorite joke linear thinking men make, but we are so different from the human species.

Then he says, “I must do some errands before the flight. Do you want to do them with me?”
My head is screaming, “OBVIOUSLY, Duh.”
Even though I have better things I can be doing, no thank you.
I casually responded, “mhm, that sounds fun.”
And so, we went and did errands, and he dropped me off.
And said we’d connect later that day.

Date number 3 – First date with this man

 He picks me up right on time.
He gets out of the car and opens the door.
Finally, he tells me where he made the reservation, AHH, one of my favorite places. 

However, I must say this guy is older and different looking than when I remembered him.
We arrived at the place; I suggested a place to park.
He goes, “No, here is better.” Which, mind you is further away from where we are eating; it still costs money and doesn’t make sense because the place has a valet. So, we got out; I said, “aren’t you going to pay for the parking?”
He responded, “no, I don’t need to; I have the handicap because I just hurt my foot.”

I thought it interesting already slight resistance in our fields.
So, we get to dinner; they sit us inside, then he wants to be changed to outside.
Which is fine; I wanted that too.

We start to order.
And HOLY BOY, this is the most amount of amazing food I’ve eaten in a LONG time.
It was like no limit; the food was endless.

 Now the man asked some crucial questions:
“What are you looking for?”
“What is your biggest value in life?”
“What’s most important to you at this stage of life?”

I thought, wow, all super unique questions that led to a dynamic conversation.
Also, this many gave me the most fantastic gift on our first date, which was so unexpected.
However, when he gave me this gift, he said, “I expect nothing in return, just seeing your happiness.” And what was amazing is I felt he meant that there was no lying, no secret agenda; it was felt truth.

The date went on, and I learned about his family, ex-wife.
And it felt like he wanted to plan a lot of future things together with me.
Finding out what I liked didn’t.
The dinner lasted 4 hours, legit.
Then we had two options we could go out or go home.
I said, “I’m down to go out,”

So, we go back to his car.
$375 ticket, because of the parking. Exactly what I thought would happen, but I’ve learned never to argue with the linear thinking man as an intuitive and physic woman. It never goes well because we operate on different frequencies. Eventually, these types of men just learn we are right.
However, his REACTION was profound, “It’s just money; your company was the treat.”
WOW, the safety I felt.

So, when we got in the car, my mind shifted.
He felt it immediately and said, “do you want just to go home and go to bed? We can go out another night.”

I said, “yeah, that be great; I think I just got so tired.”
So, he dropped me off, super sweet.
I went to bed and felt fulfilled.

Date Number 4 – WOW – sporadic, spur of the moment, met at the pool and turned into a date night.

Now this man, I’d seen him the day before at the pool.
And I just felt something.
I knew something.
I turned to the person I was with, saying, “this man is trying to see if I’m married if I have a ring or a boyfriend. He’s so hot.”

I keep catching us staring at each other.
Then I left the pool.
The next day, I came down and brought an extra set of my books to give to him.
As I open the gate to the pool, he is going to open it for a couple coming through with suitcases.

DIVINE ORDER OR WHAT?
I go stand by him in line as I was going to order a glass of Prosecco.
We began chatting, and I said, “can I sit by you?”
He laughs, “of course, I’ll move a chair.”
He gets my Prosecco and offers to buy me food.

We’re laughing and talking the whole time at the pool.
Then he kisses me.
UGH, so hawt.

And we agreed we’d go get ready, the re-met up, and he’d take me to dinner.
We spent all night laughing together, meeting people.
Then he walked me home in the morning.

So, what do we think?
When it comes to love, knowing yourself, each man is a good man.
Each man has texted me, called me, or we’ve communicated since then.
What’s beautiful is each man is their own world.
They are incomparable, but they each evoke a different sensation and feeling.
They each offer a different energetic connection that drives the erotic feminine design wild.
It’s a fairytale.
It’s an energetic connection I feel with each of them that allows me to DEEPLY feel the presence of something greater than just the human body, mind, and experience.

However, each of these men knows THE SECRET.
Each one knows how to make any woman crave them.
Each man knows how to navigate conflict.
Each man knows how to make a woman feel special, seen, loved, and understood for the time they are with the woman.

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